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And your response is to shrug your shoulders and say: The Friend Trap is an old familiar favourite. Nothing sexual EVER happens. It gets frustrating. You can tell he loves being around you and hanging out, hell, he may even hug you now and then like a boyfriend, but he never initiates anything more physical. Is he just incompetent? Annoying right?
A lot of guys wish they felt sexual attraction for women they were great buddies with, because that would be the frienxs scenario!
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In the case of the Friend Trap: The preferred option should always be to put distance between you. Or if that seems way Looking for female friends and maybe someone special dramatic, just stop putting yourself in any one-on-one scenarios with him altogether.
Make it a rule to only see him in the company of others, or not at all.
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In the case of the Friends-With-Benefits Trap: Then withdraw. Not coldly, not spitefully, but just in a relaxed way. Femle him your standards in that moment.
You want to withdraw affection in a way that says: I need someone who wants more commitment right now. Now go meet other guys and forget about this psecial. If he never calls again, no harm done.
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